Huggin’ and a-kissin’, dancin’ and a-lovin’

This past weekend, I ventured out of NY and into NJ for my sister/future bro-in-law’s conjoined bachelor/ette party. And being that nearly all of the loving couple’s friends were either born or raised in the 80s, they threw their bash at the aptly named dance club The Breakfast Club. And, you guessed it, they only play the most memorable and hottest jams from the 80s!

Being that I was wearing diapers for the majority of my 80s experience, one might think that I would be out of touch with said generation. However, I’ve seen enough VH1 flashback shows to know my way around this most memorable musical decade. And I was beyond thrilled that they blasted some of my personal 80s favorites:

The B-52’s’ Love Shack

Cyndi Lauper’s “Girls Just Want To Have Fun

A-ha’s Take On Me

Madonna’s “Material Girl

So what would you die to hear play if you were kicking it up at the Breakfast Club?

Today, Sesame Street is Brought to You by the Letter H

Last school year (for the past three years, actually), my daughter Sally was classmates with one Sadie E., daughter of the esteemed filmmaker Sam Erickson. Sam has shot concert films for the likes of My Morning Jacket and Dave Matthews, and been the subject of a show at the Morrison Hotel Gallery, but one day this past spring he trained his camera on the Grasshoppers class of the Co-Op school in Clinton Hill. The result, a segment on the Letter H (which apparently stands for “Helping,” not “Hanks”) aired on Sesame Street today. You can get a quick glimpse of Sally at the nine second mark. That’s her in the purple t-shirt.

Thanks, Sam!

Sesame Street – The Letter H! from 44 Pictures on Vimeo.

Stockholm Syndrome

My passport expires in May so I decided to get one more stamp on there before I have to send it to the Department Of “Why On Earth Do You Have to Send Your Passport Back To Get A New One?” (Anyone?)

I toyed with several options: Paris (been there), Edinburgh (been there), Graceland (never been, but no stamp! They should offer a stamp.) I settled on Stockholm, the Venice of the North, land of Vikings, meatballs, Ikea, pickled herring and Robyn.

The highlight was the Vasa Museum, one of the best museums I’ve been to in my entire life. It’s an early seventeenth century warship that capsized off the harbor. (They hadn’t put enough ballast in the hull.) The ship sat in the Baltic for over 300 years. Now, it’s 90% restored and the museum does a painstakingly thorough job of explaining EVERYTHING you could ever want to know about the ship’s history. It’s soo cool!

Other highlights: Gamla Stan (the old city) seeing the band Me and Skinny Joon, hanging out with one of my best friends, the outdoor museum Skansen (they have a wolverine!) and eating French fries with béarnaise and an ungodly number of cardamom buns. Here are some photos.

Perfecting The Wedding Playlist

I'm on the left. The bride is in white.

Over the weekend I served as Maid of Honor at my sister’s beautiful wedding by the sea in Gloucester, Massachusetts. Pre-wedding I was tasked with compiling a slide-show of photos of the happy couple, from baby pictures to engagement photos…. a daunting task. And not just because my sister is unusually snap-happy with her camera, but because I also had to choose the music.

I scoured my iTunes and found little that was appropriate for a wedding. My first instinct was to use The Temper Trap’s “Sweet Disposition,” one of the most gorgeous songs I know:

But it turned out not to be long enough. I settled on Arcade Fire’s “Neighborhood #1 (Tunnels)” because the beat fit the quick pace of the photos and it’s nearly 5 minutes long. Plus, it IS about falling in love and having babies and growing old, right?

This process got me thinking about alternative wedding songs. My sister and her husband chose Beyonce’s “Crazy in Love” and Van Morrison’s “Crazy Love” as their entrance and first dance songs, both atypical and inspired choices, I thought.

But what is the discerning music fan to do? What romantic non-obvious wedding songs are out there? Here’s the (admittedly short) list I came up with:

  • Band of Horses “Marry Song”
  • The Beach Boys “God Only Knows”
  • Guillemots “Made Up Love Song #43″
  • Old 97’s “Question” (ok, this one’s a little obvious, but I love Rhett Miller)
  • The Cure “Just Like Heaven”
  • Rogue Wave “Maps” (Yeah Yeah Yeahs cover)
  • Ben Folds “The Luckiest”

What am I missing?

Rolling Thru the 80s

So lately I’ve been going a bit overboard on late ’70s/early ’80s Rolling Stones. You won’t find many folks who’d say this is their strongest era – ‘Exile on Main Street’ perennially sits atop my all-time favorite albums list – but the oceanic divide between Mick Jagger’s increasing obsession with disco, celebrity and fashion and Keith Richards’ increasing obsession with not really caring make for some pretty endearing, if not bizarre, tunes.

The contrast couldn’t be more clear and ridiculous than on 1978’s “Shattered,” a grimy ode to New York City. Really, what is going on here? And why can’t I stop listening? Tongue-in-cheek, campy, overblown, underthought, call it whatever you want – they made some great stuff in this era, particularly the two songs I’ve featured below. The mock-country “Far Away Eyes” in particular hasn’t left my head in a week.

“Far Away Eyes” (from 1978’s ‘Some Girls’)

“Waiting on a Friend” (from 1981’s ‘Tattoo You’)

This one isn’t the Stones or a particularly good song, but worth noting here for purely comical purposes…

Mick Jagger and David Bowie – “Dancing in the Street” (from a 1985 Live Aid charity single)

Any other bands whose mid-career output deserves a second look?

Sonic Garden Blooms at All Tomorrows Parties

We always look forward to Asbury Park’s exciting roster of weekend events, and are keenly anticipating Sonic Garden’s fringe festival of performances and talks at Café Volan, Thursday September 29 through Tuesday, October 4th.  Event programmer and impresario David Spelman has truly outdone himself in concocting a line up of film and music events which reflect the creative interests of Asbury. Spelman’s festival coincides with All Tomorrow’s Parties, and is envisioned as a thought-provoking counterpoint and complement to ATP.  Its scope will appeal to the spectrum of artists, musicians, writers, entrepreneurs, surfers, scenesters and scholars who make Asbury unique. If this festival is anything like David’s recent Ellnora Guitar Festival, which American Songwriter praised for its “extraordinary artistry, extraordinary diversity, and extraordinary generosity”, it is sure to please crowds and critics  and will achieve Spelman’s  goal of creative comingling of vibrant cultures here on the Jersey Shore.

Impresario David Spelman

I’m particularly looking forward to the screening of the documentary “Heartworn Highways,” followed  by a Q&A with the film’s producer, Graham Leader, on Thursday, September 29th at 8pm. Directed by James Szalapski and scheduled for a much deserved, major DVD re-release in 2012, the 1975 documentary explores the  contemplative side of country music as the director captures singers and songwriters outside the core of the Nashville establishment. The intimate performances and conversations with artists such as Townes Van Zandt, David Allan Coe, Guy Clark, and Rodney Crowell during the early stages of their careers will captivate country fans and general music lovers alike. This should really be a stand out event!

Can’t wait for this!

I am honored to take part in this festival by introducing the highly celebrated cartoonist and country-crooner  Andy Friedman on Monday, October 3rd at 8pm. Andy has been described as an “erudite redneck” (Boston Globe) who has a “mastery of wordy self-loathing that many white dudes with guitars would kill for” (Nashville Scene). Although stories of his early mailroom days may have audiences roaring with laughter, his deep, scratchy vocals and crafty guitar melodies will have them swooning as well. I hope to give him the introduction he deserves because I know his appearance will be meg awesome.

Marilyn Laverty to introduce Andy at Café Volan

These events, plus appearances by director Aaron Schock, musician Vernon Reid, and filmmaker/photographer Ralph Gibson are all happening at Café Volan, 510 Bangs Ave., Doug Parent and Paul Cali’s hip addition to Asbury Park’s culinary and cultural community.

Rave On Warby Parker

I spent part of my summer working on the fantastic Rave On Buddy Holly record – and am also a proud wearer of Warby Parker glasses (as are a couple other Shore Fire staff members), so in a confluence of events went to the Warby Parker/Rave On Buddy Holly Fashion Night Out Party last night at Partners and Spade in NOHO.

Rave On Buddy Holly and Warby Parker, a super cool and affordable NYC-based eyeglasses company, teamed up to celebrate what would have been Buddy’s 75th BDAY with cake, booze, and a performance by Rave On contributor Justin Townes Earle. Rave On producers Randall Poster and Gelya Robb were in attendance and JTE put on a great set. Buddy deserves his own national holiday, but this party was a good NYC way to celebrate.

The Unfortunate Umbrella Situation

Every time we’re doused with some really good rain, I find myself questioning New Yorkers’ usage of the umbrella. And this week is no different.

Now, as we approach 48 hours of straight rain, the streets, sidewalks, subways, and parks are becoming increasingly littered by broken, castaway umbrellas. And not just broken, but horribly mangled in most cases.

Sure, some of those umbrellas probably cost $2 on the corner (or maybe $5 at the convenience store) and aren’t built to withstand wind gusts of more than 2 mph, but still – why is it that people just leave their broken umbrellas right where they are when the tragedy occurs?

We don’t do this with anything else when it breaks: backpacks, cars, headphones, ballpoint pens, folding chairs… I could go on.

Maybe in that moment – when you’re suddenly getting drenched because this infernal contraption is no longer equipped to keep you dry – throwing it down on the ground in anger is just the most satisfying. (It’s still littering.)

Whatever the reason, here’s a collection of some of the best Umbrellas in Distress I’ve come across.

Happy Birthday, Tyler!

This week, we celebrated the birthday of the oh so delightful Tyler Cannon. The Shore Fire gang gathered to enjoy a unique carrot cake, described as carrot cake with cheesecake on top, from Lady Bird Bakery. Tyler was fortunate enough to have a 3-day weekend for Labor Day and his birthday, but I hope the cake made coming back to work after the long weekend a little bit easier!

Tyler blowing out his birthday candles

Get On MTV Hives’ Weird Vibes

Just got off the horn with Mike Ayers at MTV Hive who let me know that the first full-length episode of Weird Vibes (the new series about indie music born out of Shirley Braha’s New York Noise) is available. If you haven’t taken the time, DO. It’s great. Lots of “indie” artists speak candidly about what it means to have the word “indie” surreptitiously attached to your name in spite of your best effort, what it means to have indie “cred” and also why everyone is POOR!!!! Looking forward to seeing more of the show.